Notes

“Now, for most guys, sex is just, you know, this thing we always want to do.
It’s fun, feels great, but we’re not really thinking too much about how it makes us feel on the inside, or, you know, how the other person feels about it.
[..]
Only because they get that it’s about something more than just the physical.
You know, when you’re intimate with somebody, in that way, you’re exposing yourself.
You’re never going to be more vulnerable, and that scares the hell out of a lot of guys.
Believe me, I can’t tell you how many buddies I’ve got who have gotten in way too deep with a girl who said she was cool with just hooking up.
[..]
No, it’s going to be worse, okay, because it’s two guys.
With two guys, you’ve got two people who think that sex is just sex.
It’s gonna be easier to come by, and once you start doing this stuff you’re not gonna want to stop.
You just, you gotta know that it means something.
You know. It’s doing something — to you, to your heart, to your self esteem.
Even though it feels like you’re just having fun.
[..]
I think on your 30th birthday it is a great gift to yourself.
Kurt, when you’re ready, I want you to be able to… do everything. But when you’re ready, I want you to use it as a way to connect to another person.
Don’t throw yourself around, like you don’t matter.
‘Cause you matter, Kurt.”
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Burt Hummel. 2x15

This is something that I wanted to hear when I was younger.

You matter is important.

because I know that if someone had told me these words now I probably would have made ​​different choices, better choices and I do not would regret instead of things that I did.

it is important to give the talk to younger people because otherwise there is a risk that these people will make bad choices and rushed

Like me.

This is why I love Glee

Because it makes me reflect on real problems that all people have and let talented actors express with simplicity what is right and what is wrong.

You matter, remember it, always.

There’s only one you.

You are important.