Notes

Hi, Chloe. Thank you for your email. As someone who was present in the room yesterday during the impromptu, musical recap of S2 during MTV's live stream with the cast of SUPERGIRL, I can speak as a voice of reason and with objectivity as this situation requires. It's entirely up to you to accept or deny the following... I will not undermine your feelings or those of anyone who took issue with what you've perceived to be offensive. However, as an activist, it's very important that you take a step back before inflicting public scorn. As a role model, its incumbent upon you to shape your understanding and engage in meaningful and respectful dialogue based on fact and motivation, and not just on whether your feelings were bruised. You cannot fairly denounce Melissa or Jeremy or the cast for what they DIDN'T say. You cannot fairly characterize their verbiage or actions as "aggressive," on the contrary. They were having fun in a riff session and hardly at the expense of the LGBT community. You cannot fairly assume or rationalize why David Harewood or Katie McGraff didn't participate so to substantiate your argument. To enter into a sensitive debate, you have to be really careful about making baseless claims based solely on emotion. Chloe: neither Melissa or Jeremy or any of the cast member marginalized any individual, regardless of orientation, by saying "Kara and Lena" are just friends. They didn't say "can't be friends" or "shouldn't be friends" OR remotely imply that "two female characters would never see each other in a romantic light in their whole lives" Then you take it one step further to accuse them of declaring "the incomprehensibility of a woman loving another woman" and "blatantly made a mockery of non-heterosexual women" it's wholly irresponsible to publicly admonish anyone, as you have on your social media platforms, and i mean anyone, for such a broad and unsubstantiated interpetation of the S2 recap. That, Chloe, is actually the definition of defamation. Allow me to also clarify for you that other than Melissa who MTV brass placed next to host Josh Horowitz, the cast seated themselves. As did all 13 casts of films and television shows that i guided through MTV. Unless David and Katie said they felt "isolated" in their positions in the back, I would recommend you walk back these statements as well. There are gross injustices globally of the LGBT community. This was not one of those occasions. You may feel slighted because the creatives behind the SG series didn't lead the Kara-Lena relationship in a direction that would have made you happy and proud in S2. You cannot therefore accuse them of being anti-gay. If Josh Horowitz instead engaged in a serious Q&A with the cast as to why they didnt take that path and Melissa. Jeremy and the cast responded "kara cannot be in a relationship with Lena because she's SUPERGIRL" then i invite you to protest loudly and with far more aggression and passion than what you percevided from the cast yesterday. You've indicted people who are genuine ambassadors of acceptance, compassion and equallity and have proven as much, not on only Glee but on SUPERGIRL and in their own personal lives. As you continue your mission to right the wrongs in society and especially thoes inflicted on the LGBT community, i highly recommend you postulate your arguments soundly. Thank you Chloe for reaching out