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so theres this guy and i think theres something between us and hes super friendly so i dont know if its actually something or if hes just being friendly

when he talks to other people its like actual conversations but with us its more joking and "teasing"

ok so like this might sound weird but hes actually a patient at a place i work at but its ok bc its only a summer job for me
but anyways i asked him the other day if theres anything else he needed and he was like company but then immediately he was like im just kidding
i do that too if im teasing someone i'll say something and then immediately be like im totally just kidding but why would he say company
even if he was kidding he could have said anything a million dollars, a car, anything why company?




You
hey
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Hi there
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You
how are you
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I'm pretty good. What about you?
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You
im ok a bit confused im rachelle btw
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Hi Rachelle I'm Daniel. What are you confused about?
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You
nice to meet you
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so theres this guy and i think theres something between us and hes super friendly so i dont know if its actually something or if hes just being friendly
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Does he pay special attention to you? Does it seem lie he's extra friendly to you?
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You
i dont know if this counts but when he talks to other people its like actual conversations but with us its more joking and "teasing"
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Listener
Mhm
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How old are you both?
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You
im 19 and he'll be 22 in a few days
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Same college?
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You
no he just graduated
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Listener
So do you like him too?
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You
yeah
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But he hasn't asked you out?
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You
no but we only see each other twice a week for an hour each
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So there's a distance issue?
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You
well ok so like this might sound weird but hes actually a patient at a place i work at but its ok bc its only a summer job for me
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A patient?
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You
yeah
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Explain
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Like in a hospital?
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You
no in an outpatient physical therapy office
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but im only working there as a summer job
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my current job isnt like a career for me
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At the beginning of this you said you were confused. What's the confusion?
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You
if he likes me or not
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Well without being told any information other than he teases you, I think only you can know that. And it seems like you already do know that he likes you. Regardless, ask him out yourself just to see.
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You
i cant do that im to much of a scardy cat lol
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Yeah it can be scary. But you can do it over text
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You
i dont have his number
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the other day i asked him the other day if theres anything else he needed and he was like company but then immediately he was like im just kidding i do that too if im teasing someone i'll say something and then immediately be like im totally just kidding but why would he say company even if he was kidding he could have said anything a million dollars, a car, anything why company?
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Hahaha
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Ask him for his number then
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You
i cant just be like can i have your number
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Yes, yes you can
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You
i was thinking how perfect would it be if like on his last day of pt he was like can i have your number yknow in case i have any questions about physical therapy
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Sure you can wait for him, but what if he's a scaredy cat too? One of you not the last day has to ask for the others number. Don't look at it like a request. Just say "hey we should keep in touch. Here's my number" or something like that
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You
he doesnt seem like a scaredy cat though and i dont know isnt that weird if i just randomly ask for his number
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You can give him yours
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It's not weird
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You
thats even weirder
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than id be waiting for him to text me
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and if he didnt
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Listener
How do you think people start texting people? They ask for each other's number!
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Rachelle, you have like nothing to lose
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You're young and beautiful
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You
yeah but thats after theyre friends and stuff like we just joke around and stuff
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Listener
You're friends
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He might not even know that you're interested in him. But if you give him your number, then he'll know
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You
i dont know i think ive been making it pretty obvious the real question is if hes interested in me
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I think he is
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You
i just dont want it to weird between us if i say something and hes not
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Listener
Worst case scenario you just remain regular friends. It's low risk high reward here. Give him your number
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You
i cant just go up to him and give him my number
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Obviously not you do it in the flow of things if it feels right
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You
like i need to have an excuse to give it to him its not like were coworkers or have class together
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well most of our conversations consist of me telling him what excersises he should do and him confirming it with a few jokes in between
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That's actually a good line. "Here's my number, text me if you ever have any more questions about physical therapy." That way it's kind of flirty and fun
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You
but like thats weird if hes still coming in for more appointments
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Do it at the end if you want
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Like last day
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You
yeah the thing is i dont know when his last day is it just depends on his progress which hes making a lot of
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So? Is he just gonna be randomly gone one day?
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You
well depending on what his doctor says, what his physical therapist thinks and what the insurance company allowss
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If you two like each other, there's no way you'll not keep in touch
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You
well its happened before where ill think theres something between me and i guy and nothing will never happen only for us for never see each other again
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I met my last girlfriend in class. We would just joke around before class, make faces during, make fun of the professor and walk back after class and stuff. She emailed me her number and said to text me if I ever felt like talking to her. I thought that was nice of her, so we starts talking. It's not weird.
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You
yeah i guess but you guys were classmates so it wasnt weird for you guys to exchange numbers
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Quit your excuses
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You
lol
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ok imagine your in his shoes and i gave you my number would you think it'd be weird
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Not if I like you
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So that's how you find out
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You
but what if he doesnt like me
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You have my permission to feel bad for like a day
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You
i mean it wouldnt be the worst thing bc after he is done with pt i'd never have to see him again but like while hes still coming it'd would bc awkward
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Well you might have to be okay with it being weird for a little bit
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You can always facebook stalk
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You
oh i have lol yeah omg i totally forgot yesterday his pt had to help other patients so she asked me to help so i went up to him and i was like just so you know she told i was in charge of you today and he was like perfect and i was like im gonna make the excersise extra hard this is gonna be fun and he just started laughing
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it doesnt seem like much but it was just the way it was said
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hello?