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does this make me obsessed? so you see my friend and i are working on something and what we are working on is relating to personal experience at least for me but he loves the idea except at the same time it feels like i am sending a lot of messages and i tell him that and i really do apologize something else i do is that i also always say lmk because i wanna hear what he has to say and everything...
i sent him 25 messages and the last message that i sent him was "U r a cool dude bro i will stop sending lots of messages sorry whenever your free thanks dude lmk"... all these 25 messages are about this idea and everything like that... whats the next thing i could tell him so it doesnt sound obsessive but it sounds cool and chill

this might not relate to this but i heard that
people who are known to care about others and everything
are known to be what psychologist call striking talent
which means that they have tremendous ability in a specific area
basically that states people are known to be smart in one or 2 areas
or might average or below average in other areas
and sometime it is shown that if someone is really smart in a certain area
they are less likely to be socially skilled or a good communicator
but are known to have this obsessive interest
which is having this tendency to focus really intensley and really narrow down the specifics
on a certain topic and sometimes that can work against them... like sometimes they are overally rigid
or dont like it when there routines are broken which can also be seen as a real strength for someone that
has great focus and energy is more likely to deal with hard times... and can most likely be persistent when tasks
get boring to other people... which is known to be called delibrate practice.. and its like it means someone is willing to work their hardest on the parts your the worst at