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Marriage and family

60.Should children be forced to show physical affection (hugs, etc.) to family members they're uncomfortable around?


Birth of sociology

The delineation or more simply known as term of sociology refers back to the age of predecessors from the genius Plato to the great debatable Confucius that first discussed the subject matter that surrounds the terminology of sociology which was later on popularised by the industrial revolution during the early 19th century that originated from Great Britain from 1760 to sometime between the 1820 and 1840 in which an unprecedented rapid increase in population growth had reached an alarming state. Though it is not until Auguste Comte himself credited the phrase “Sociology” that these leitmotif were officially analyzed more in depth. Of course it is without a doubt that there are others that had contributed to the cause for the name of science that is to name a few would be Karl Marx with his highly controversial take on capitalism with his famously published book that goes by the name of “The Communist Manifesto”. Supporting the definition and beginning of sociology too would be Emile Durkheim where he researched the social causes responsible for the accelerated suicide annex. The genesis of sociology would not be possible without the assistance of these individuals in changing social views forever.
















Definition of sociology

As Auguste had mentioned the contextual meaning behind sociology is to appreciate and understand the complexity of society as it is without bias in lieu of what standards it ought to have been like and how all the answers could be found in science itself if studied more meticulously. Ergo, Sociology is another branch that stems out from the world of science in which a study of human social affiliation and behaviour are recorded to comprehend just how society trends functions in the real world. Sociology covers a lot of basis that requires an individual to react to theoretical questions in order to find the right solution for the good of mankind which makes it a complication as well as an advantage in some cases. As human interactions are heavily influenced by social hierarchies, it is safe to assume that such manipulated variable must be carefully calculated to conclude an excellent closure as these aspects are akin to our own daily lives as human beings which does not make the task a child’s play. This distinctive way of looking through society as a whole gives oneself a much more understanding of the big world whether through nature or nurture which influences one’s demeanour and can be taken for granted if such interpretation of theories were not valued enough for what it is.


















Context in sociology

It is a universal interpretation that many terminologies divides themselves into classification for the purpose of conveying a much clearer elucidation on the subject matter as to not confuse it with any other ones during the long run as mistakes should be avoided if possible. Thence why Sociology segregates into two jurisdiction that is macro-sociology and micro-sociology where an easier denotation could be found in which macro-sociology stands for the general viewpoint of society as a whole which highlights the social hierarchies and the extensive population on a larger rank. An indication of macro-sociology being conducted is when a theme is focused on the appropriated social system in which they rightfully belong to where it is not hard to recognise as some areas of sociology are obvious to the public eyes. Per contra to macro-sociology however, micro-sociology takes on the lead of conducting a more smaller and concentrated study using smaller subgroups at a much limited scale where social status and its roles are the most fundamental assets of said structure and is why micro-sociology are based on these ongoing reciprocal interactions to further apprehend the correlation between status and roles of society.



















Marriage and family

As per mentioned before, Sociology comprises of multitudinous of areas in which a thorough vindication is presented for a more extensive research. To such amplitude, Marriage and family subsists of and related with traditional culture that is a socially inherited custom passed down from generation to another as interpreted by Schaefer. It is not peculiar to find the word marriage when one is dealing with family as both are interdependent with each other as it serves as crucial agents of socialization themselves that comes in variegated and distinct delineation. Indeed, sociologists also could not concede on just one meaning but marriage to make it simple is a holy matrimony between two people which agreed upon a lifetime of commitment together. This indication of legal binding is what creates a family, such intriguing proposition is what started status roles in society and this is explained by allegorical interactions, complex sociology and functionalism. Hitherto, family like any other aspects in life is not always built on sunshine and rainbows particularly in contemporary sociological quantitative practice where a large-scale analysis conducted shows a contradictory result which will be clarified with an exemplar study case in Malaysia.




















Children with physical affection

With reference to affection in general, it is scientifically presume that it is a human feeling that reposes of having an affinity and caring for a special person in which this gentle predilection is commonly associated with children in families where such sensitivity is paramount. Such tangible affection is demanded for the purpose of children’s growth stability as family environment influences one’s social behaviour towards a cynical future. It is accurately proven that children that grows up without said warmth comfort are more inclined to become emotionally unavailable during their later years and socially deprived from civilization. Naturally, being affection also means remaining patient is substantial as it takes time to develop a stronger familial relationship which will someday be fruitful in maintaining a healthy lineage for years to come. An epitome of physical affection comes in numerous methods but the obvious collective sign of this social interaction is by the form of hugs that encourages children that they are loved and acknowledged. Despite the contrary though, a parental figure should not smother their offspring as it will ensue the children to becoming spoiled in the near outlook and in preference, should try to respect their privacy and comfort bounds as these individuals will go through a lot of phases in life where they might not feel too touchy with their families.


















Force physical affection in children

Said proposal has been around ever since philosophers questioned the delineation behind life itself which then brings to the Marriage and family theme where children is considered the focal purpose as future generation depends on this perseverance in order to achieve modernity in a long shot. Affection is only as good as it is genuine and applies to any form, be it physical or emotional for its affect can bring about more damage than it is better for. In this fashion, children should first feel comfortable enough in the present of others while also be respected as others might appear intimidating especially on the first encounter. Under the aegis of considering these children’s personal space, a sense of trust will bevy them as it demonstrates that their body and mind belongs to them and therefore, not just anyone can touch them simply because they might want to for the fact that these children are innocent beings. Consequently, this brings back to the theme in which should children be forced to exhibit physical affection to family members? The definite answer from this report would be no and this specifically pertain to when the said child does not feel comfortable to do so. This might sound like a disrespectful action but in a logical sense, adults must find an understanding that these children have their own feelings and such thing must be respected for them to grow up with the same healthy mentality even if the affection is from a close relative by blood.

















Case study in Malaysia

In the act of reforming the term of marriage and family, sociologists investigates the theme in both the macro and micro level to establish an understanding of the bigger picture. Taking a look at one of the more serious and prevalent cases here in Malaysia which are divorce rates that are often time disregarded as frivolous notably in real time during the age of pandemic currently being experienced that left more children to be cared by single parents with Johor recording the highest numbers at a 7,558, followed by a whopping 5,985 from Kedah and alas, Kelantan with a unprecedented record of 5,982. Such extremity that was documented back in 2021 was due to the overwhelming pressure in which the pandemic had pose to the general public as the new normalities were far from comfortable with the difference in profit margin for some minorities in Malaysia.

Of course earnings are not the only concerns during this time as being cooped up in one place could degrade ones mental health and their temper to spiral into madness. This much can become dangerous predominantly for parents with children as these youths usually becomes the target center for these outbursts sadly and as time passes these neglected beigs will halt any attempts to have a closer connection with their parents and refuse any affections, be it emotionally or physically. An accurate statistic taken from the same year of 2021 also exhibit that divorces were piling up on an average of 140 in just a day. This alarming number is concerning as these marriages have produced many complications especially for youths growing up with such childhood.













Conclusion

All in all, sociology is a form of science focused on the social lives and human behaviours throughout a daily rudiment in which sociologists researched a deeper contextual meaning behind the very meaning of every asset in existence and thence how family and marriage comes in view when studying into detail as society can only thrive as much as they were developed during their childhood era. The connection between family and marriage does not tie with only one definition as it can have various of other hidden connotation which to conclude in a simple manner, social order originated from family as human beings first learned of social standings by mimicking human interactions such as their father or mother whom are the closest aids during that period. Of course this synergy includes emotional and physical affection as well as it is a fundamental process for children’s growth though however, boundaries and respect are also needed to establish beforehand to ensure the said youth are able to distinguish between bad and good attention as their life might not only revolve around family only. Alas coming to an end, family and marriage must be considered a critical sociological issue and must be surveyed for future generation uses.