Notes

First thing to get out the way. Dawg, gonna be honest with you here women care about looks. There was a study where men and women were asked to rank what they cared about in a romantic partner. Men put physical attractiveness as second/third most important. Women put it on average as six most important. This people then went on speed dates (with hired actors but they obviously did not know this) and then after the dates the men and women in the study were asked who they would want for a second date. For Both, I repeat both, men and women physical attractiveness was the number one predictor in deciding weather or not they wanted a second date (women cared less, but not that much less). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s437slmF4D0 ( Dr. Todd Grande; Can Men Appear More Attractive to Women?) Give the video a watch he goes through the science of it. But dawg, women are sexual too, so improve your looks. Easiest first: wear "nice" clothes(nice is subjective (you decide if its nice or not) that's why its in quotes) . Wear whatever clothes you like, but make sure they fit onto your body and are not too loose or tight. Second: Get a hair cut that fits your face shape and hair style (there are subreddits that can help with this, but if you have the money go to a hairstylist, not a barber, stylist (I know it sounds gay, but as long as your doing things with good intentions fuck what others might think). Third: hygiene (try to smell good, but at the least do not smell bad). Fourth: Unless you can grow a full beard; clean shaven is the move. Fifth: Skin care (its not hard and it will make you look better)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXsS7HNN0O4&list=PL_J2v0yTbjr4TBCIvVHfeoDRWIPfSz5QP.
skincare basics with hyram; skin care 101. Six: Eyebrows? You do not want them to look unnatural, so get rid of odd hairs (TBH, I know they matter, but what exactly your suppose to do IDK. Mine were always good (like girls would randomly sorta playfully complement me on mine). Seven: build muscle (if you're doing it naturally which you should do not worry about "getting to big" it won't happen. Build as much as you can) Eight: Low body fat. I'm assuming your a guy, so get under 15 percent. 10 to 15 percent is where you want to be both for your body and face.
Nine: mewing? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbzT00Cyq-g. What i've learned; attractive face or not?
(this is fringe stuff ngl. look it up if interested and got the time do it. If not, don't). Ten: confidence matters. Make sure your taking to more than one girl at a time so that you care less if things with one girl does not work out (you'll be less nervous and therefore more confidant). Remind yourself: you can only control you (as long as your intentions are good you are not doing anything wrong) (so stop worrying about anything else). Still nervous: try to slow down your breathing or smoke/eat some CBD (CBD is legal don't worry). Also you gotta flirt. Eye contact, be relaxed, Joke around with her, small touches, be physically somewhat close, and pay attention when she talks. Acronym: H.O.T A.P.E. H = Humor O = Open Body Language (be relaxed) T = Touch A = Attention P = Proximity E = Eye contact. Ok, now for some "bro" rules (not backed by science but common sense). Try not to hang out with the girl you like in groups to much. Get to hang out with her one v one (hanging out is not a date, but still be flirty). 98% plus of the time MAX text is two. If two text and no replies, she's not interested and that's okay. Don't be needy. Finally ask her the fuck out. You lucky Af that I'm on addy btw.