Notes

tier one: you need help /gen
> going back to emi
> falling in love with ex abuser
> pinging vincent to read a poem about drowning when it was his trigger
> talking about hating (gay) men essesively at the same time it was tylers trigger
> clove s/h stuff telling clove about romantic feelings for girls while In a relationship with him anything about clove goes here
> weird hypersexual clove stuff starting at this message link: https://discord.com/channels/693704687127625759/733051098989985854/801985699355557908
> the hypersexual suuuper mean episode where they kept talking about putting knives in their cooch to new members despite asking to stop also the weird microphone cp. and before all of that, not letting me mute them at the beginning because it wouldve "given them an episode" even though they were already in one??
> blaming literally everything on adhd and avoiding critisism
> NOT EVEN HAVING DIAGNOSED ADHD THEY ADMITTED TO SELF DIAGNOSING DESPITE HAVING MORE MEDICAL RESOURCES THAN ALL OF US COMBINED LOL
> constant guilt tripping and wallowing in self pity
> using everyone as a free therapist DESPITE HAVING A THERAPIST?
> bisexual lesbian era and being oddly transphobic towards half of the dudes in the server + ethan(?) [plus apparently to teya? dragon? she said it in a note lol]
> would vent to emma but never be there for them/be short and passive aggressive in return *
> sent a jar of their own blood in vent channel, sent letter and drawing for clove written in blood in general chat, talked about drinking a jar of their own blood with no :) no warning and talked about painting with it with no warning just in general chat despite multiple people and clove telling them to stop *
> talking about having to be restrained so they wouldnt stab a child or a cat but . not going to therapy for anything about it *

tier two: things that are horrible but not quite as mentally ill
> "im sorry :(" but spamming it without taking responsibility
> interrupting me venting to ask if i was talking about them despite me telling them not to ask, then dming me and vincent asking if im mad even after ive said i wasnt Multiple times
> SAYING FAGGOT FOR ATTENTION...
> saying faggot in group chats *
> saying r slur but not being able to reclaim it
> deadnaming me multiple times after i told them to stop
> outing/deadnaming vincent that one time
> calling emma fat or a fattie despite them telling them to stop multiple times
> citrus enjoyer its literally in--stual non con also getting sad when other people were uncomfortable by it
> getting angry at femoid jokes despite making "tw black people" jokes and homophobic jokes so just being a hypocrite [* dont remember if this was new or not]
> would say things like "no one loves me, ill never find love, im so unlovable" after i was affectionate towards vincent *
> openly talked about making lean/cigarettes when multiple people in the server are recovering from substance abuse issues and are triggered by that. also talking about weed a lot both publicly and in dms with no warning.*

tier three: :///
> not transitioning to anything yet getting petty when i said they couldnt reclaim the t slur
> saying the f slur, telling emi that they can supposedly reclaim it, then coming to ME through vincent trying to make me give them a paragraph on why they can reclaim it sigh two faced
> talking to me through vincent even though i had them blocked
> using the fact that i called them ableist for lack of tone tags in a paragraph one time as a massive pity card when the issue wasnt tone tags the issue was literlly shoving knives in their cooch, being a massive dickwad and sending unsolicited cp
> always accusing other people of talking behind backs when 1) none of that happened until THREE DAYS BEFORE THEY LEFT and 2) THEY CONSTANTLY GOSSIPED ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE IN THE SERVER 😭😭
> asking emma if theyre dating clove Twice just because they were being friendly
> tommy obsession shit
> using email to tell us they use they/them despite using all pronouns and not even bothering to respond
> i dont know too much about this but shipping an abusive idv ship because theyre both girls
> called a nine year old a bitch :/ *