Notes

Will the child have a safe place to live?
Since our order that was issue April 2013, in November 2014 Jason had missed two weekend visitations because of his "heat " not working in his trailer. He had claimed he had done everything to resolve the issue , which I do not believe. Jason has a history of lying or extending the truth . I do feel that his heat was in fact shut off/he didn't have any money to buy propane. Jason has several people in and out of his home ranging from the age of 17-50 if they do not have a serious drug problem they're a convicted felon. I do believe with the amount of people who Jason and Chris associate with , they're in fact actively using. I have been shown videos and photos of Chris Evans drinking with a wide variety of underage kids. I have proof of this and have done extensive background research finding the ages of each individual in these photos and any criminal histories. He has a history of doing this as well as Jason.
Jason refuses to allow me into his home, I have offered Jason several times to come visit Wendy at our home . He has never been to my residence once, if you asked him where Wendy lived and to find it he would have to put it in a gps and would most likely get lost. It's been over almost two years since the last custody arrangement .
While I was living with Mr. Evans in 207 Expense Street Rome, Ny during my pregnancy with Wendy, Jason never took care of any of his animals , the apartment was in constant shambles because of this and smelled of cat urine on a very common basis. He has three cats,they're not vaccinated, coming in and out of the home in a very not so pleasant impoverished area in my opinion . I had brought Wendy to her primary doctor in Rome on numerous times I have asked if the little "bumps" that appear to be flea bites were in fact flea bites. They claimed fleas only would attack her "behind. " I have reason to believe ,owning childhood animals in the pat that this is not the truth. Wendy has come home with numerous cat scratches, flea bites, claiming that her papa's animals "hurt her." I also have photo evidence of this.

During July of 2013 , myself , Wendy, and my significant other Todd Schreiner all were covered in bites. We have reason to believe that whatever Jason had in his home from his animals/ or from not cleaning his home was brought to us . We were forced to throw out our bed/box spring because we were scared it bed bugs. Due to the lack of "care and concern "for my daughters well being we have changed her primary doctor to a doctor in our area(Baldwinsville Doctor: )
Wendy is never ill unless she visits her father , she has any skin issues unless she visits her father.
I have yet to call Child protective services because I have been waiting to surprise Mr. Evans because I know that if he even has the suspicion that they're on their way , he cleans his house.
Before he did move to Verona , I did enter / walk to into his home on numerous occasions and each time his home spelled of marijuana ,cigarettes, and strong smell cat urine.
He smokes in his home ( Photo proof )
Will the child be well-fed and clothed?
Every weekend Wendy visits her grandmother and father she comes home dirty and unbathed in unwashed clothing that I sent. Jason refuses to return her clothing articles clean and I feel it's not a good idea that he doesn't infact clean her clothes because of the prior issues with his flea infestations or whatever insect that him or his mother may be harboring inside their home. Every Sunday night I find myself cleaning her clothes, scrubbing her down in the bathtub , and having to feed my daughter because Jason refuses to feed her dinner before she comes home knowing she has to ride in a vehicle back to Baldwinsville from Rome,Ny from 5:30 - 6:30 pm. When he decides he wants to pull a stunt or create an issue by withholding Wendy extra time on purpose , he further starves Wendy and makes her restless to the point she falls asleep hungry in the car every night.
She has told me numerous times the only thing she eats at her papa's house when he has her is nothing but macaroni and cheese. She also claims he does not brush her teeth or give her baths.
She has never come back home,ever without a diaper rash or some type of skin problem.
When I had my daughter Carol Evans claimed she did not feel comfortable with giving Wendy baths or seeing me breast feed my daughter. I feel like this has a lot to do with the fact my daughter comes home with the rashes she does on her backend. I am never told or given a heads up on whether she has eaten , been bathed , anything. Every Sunday is a guessing game and I am exhausted with dealing with this. My daughter is three now and should be potty trained , Jason claimed she didn't need to rush .....she uses the bathroom at my home/families home regularly she returns to my home in diapers vs pull ups. He has no intention on furthering my daughters development I feel out of pure laziness and will further create issues with her hygiene in the future creating issues at school for my daughter and myself.
Will the child be supervised enough?
Wendy has returned to me with numerous bite marks from "kids", scratches ( from cats and whatever else), bruises, bumps, and rashes. I am never updated on any of these "accidents " until Sunday night and I am left to tend to the wounds/rashes / "boo boos." There has been numerous times I have brought Mr. Evans to court because I just wanted to know where a bite/mark/ bruise came from. I am never given a straight answer and when I ask Jason he verbally attacks me or creates a way to indirectly harm my daughter.
Wendy also claims that Jason gets mad at her and locks her into her room alone with the lights off when it comes to bed time/time out. This is very similar to the behavior that Carol Evans ( Ball) his mother had inflicted onto his brother and himself as a child. ( Upon them being taken from her and her partner Sandy Young) If this isn't something to be concerned or worried about , I don't know what is . He had told me in July of 2014 that he had put Wendy in time out for an hour because she bit a young child ( Who had bit her but they didn't CHECK HER after the incident , just punished her without finding out all the facts and had left a MARK ...who really knows if that came from a child , I have the photo but nothing was said about it other than she was being a monster?)A child's mind is small and fragile, what purpose does a hour time out serve other than for the sanity of a negligent parents who lacks paternal/maternal instinct.
Will the child get enough emotional support?
No, from what I have seen ,heard, and witnessed over the last three years I feel Wendy is not in good hands with ANY of his family members. The amount of violence, abuse , and neglect that Wendy has already been apart is enough to last a life time. She has been hit when she needed to be hugged/held/kissed/, screamed at like an animal when she needed someone to speak to her kindly and in a positive way, thrown to the side like a rag and only picked up when needed to boost about.
She never comes home the same child that I raise, it breaks my heart and makes me feel like I am failing my child by allowing this to continue because I have been afraid. He had beaten while I was pregnant with her and now he has taken over my families life. His family has no positive influence in my daughters life, I was made to coward for ever thinking he was an infit father. It was pushed and mashed into my head "how selfish can I be if a father wants to be involved with his child " , " how I was a monster for keeping my daughter from someone who wants a part in her life.", " I am lucky he even tries ." "Every child needs a father" well if this is the case your honor than I don't feel this statement is true. Wendy has me , I maybe young , and appear to be like the common angry baby mama but this is not the case. I love my daughter, more than I love myself. Enough to destroy the cycle of abuse that has been ongoing for generation after generation in her families.
Jason lacks empathy, compassion,remorse of any kind. He is fueled and driven by rage and violence.
The only love he has is for himself and himself alone. The way he treats others and even his animals is the perfect example of how he will treat my daughter in the long run.
I am and will be her rock in this life , I will hold her hand,speak to her kindly , appreciate her for who she is and what she wants in her life, I will always make sure she is clean, fed, and has all her needs met even beyond what is expected as a parent. I will get her through College, I will push her to be something , to live a life with morals , to be god fearing, and functional person in society. Jason will kill that light in her, her dreams , her hopes, her aspirations because he will ruin her image of what a man should be for the rest of her life.
He is godless, sad, and needs to seek desperate help . He needs to stop blaming what has happened to him in his life on others, and start owning up to his actions.
Until then, he needs to stay away from Wendy.
Which parent has been taking care of the child?
Todd, my self, and my family have been for the last three years with little to no help other than child support from Jason's family. He told me November 2014, I went to walmart and went to have Wendy see Jason. Instead of being excited, Jason rushed and went out side for a cigarette and literally told me " well it's my lunch but it's not my day to feed her/ take care of her. " and left abruptly .....this is Jason's constant mentality.
Does either parent abuse the child?
Wendy has told me Jason chokes her, slaps her, screams at her. I thought that this was fabricated stories but even the fact that my three year old has learned to lie in general frightens me immensely.
I have asked her in a non interrogating manor several times , reassuring she would never be in trouble . I have been a victim of abuse myself and watching Wendy try to complete the simplest tasks when under pressure....she has displayed severe signs of abuse. She shakes pointing on mittens the wrong way, dropping something on a rug. I think with Jason's explosion temper , that all of this is more than plausbile . He attacked me pregnant on numerous occasions , slapping me , wiping spit in my face ,all while laughing. I am six months pregnant currently,not with Mr. Evan's child and he has recently thrown cookies into my face infront of Wendy TWICE in a row with a smile on his face.
Jason smiles when enraged ,and I fear that in itself is exactly why he needs to get help.
I have been recently withholding my daughter from visitation because I fear that one day she will go on a visitation , during a high conflict situation.....and she will not return. I cry at night because I fear no court will ever understand or believe that he is infact this person because he is capable of talking his way out of everything.
I have a hard time verbalizing this situation without bringing up the past events that have occurred during my pregnancy because I am haunted by his actions and forever living in fear of what he will do to my beautiful little girl if I tell him "no".

If this is not heard here, I am petrified we will be here for the rest of our lives if he is either not forced to get help or be properly supervised.....or kept away. My daughter doesn't deserve this. She doesn't deserve to have to be living in the court system for the rest of her life because of one person can't co-parent or accept the fact he needs treatment.
Wendy tells me "nothing " sometimes.....and sometimes she tells me he hurts her.
Does either parent abuse drugs or alcohol? Jason's entire family has a long history of addiction. I was told that he had lost his license because of a aggravated Dwi that happened. His brother, father, and himself are known to smoke marijuana and have drinking problems as well. Many of the people comin in , out, and around Wendy's fathers home have been arrested and charged for possession or endangering the welfare of a child.
Does either parent expose the child to domestic violence?
Jason has not had one successful relationship since we have separated. Each individual female has had some "severe" issue or another. Jason never takes accountability for any of his actions. I have a few times fibbed(lied) and said that his ex had called me , telling me "Everything" each time he has created a story telling me that "well she did this to me for me to do this to her or she was a drunk and peeing herself in my hallway" .
He has harmed myself and an unknown amount of other females physically because of his anger. I refuse to allow my daughter to be the next person calling the police of Mr.Evans because of him attacking her.