Notes

NOTE: FORMATS 1 – 5 ARE TO BE USED
ON THE DATING SITE.
#1. (IF YOU ARE THE FIRST TO EMAIL
HER, SEND THIS)
#Your quick response has really made my
day and I am so happy about it.
if we close our eyes and wait for
all the bad people of this world to pass by,
the good ones will also pass and we
won’t notice.
#I saw something in your face, something
that made my heart pause to read you,
something that tickles in the heart, could that
be love at first sight? Maybe we could find
that out (lol). I’m talking about faith here
cos when feelings are so powerful, it’s as if
some forces beyond your control are
guiding you to someone who can make you
happy beyond your wildest dreams. I hope
we can now have a direct communication
#Forgive my manners, my name is Ben
Johnson, a global contractor.I own my
construction company I deal basically in
oil
platforms, rig constructions, renovations,
over water bridges, interior decors and
some art works. Trust me, I can add to
your
# in my world openness and honesty are the basis for any friendship. I'm not such that goes on instagram not looking for real friendship or sophomoric meanderings hopefully we could be good friends.
#Wow! You spark up my entire thinking
faculty. I am ready to stop searching, and
who knows, the rose in my heart could be
yours (lol). Drop a note / email address
and I’ll reply instantly. Just you may wish
to email too, my email benjohnson6690 at
G.M.A.I.L dot com You on my mind.
Ben
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2. (IF SHE HAS A LOVELY PROFILE BUH
HAVE NO PIC)
Honestly, you have a very lovely profile and
I wish I could just see your picture. There
is this feeling that tells me you are as
beautiful as your profile. Though what
matters is the internal beauty but I would
still like to see your picture. Kindly send
me
one to my gmail account at
‘biggoldenben’? I am interested in getting
to know more about you.
Cheers!
Ben.
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3. (IF SHE SENDS YOU A WINK OR EMAIL
FIRST, SEND THIS)
Topic: Hello My 101% Match
#Hey, how are you doing today? Wow was
the first thing I said when I went through
your picture / profile and I wonder why a
woman like you is still single. Perhaps, all
the men around you are blind (lol). I think
we are probably looking for real stuff on
2
here… We can hook up and hopefully, be
# soul mates… A little about
myself. Hmmm, its no doubt I’m a very
nice
man and when people meet me, they sense
it before long. I love epic movies cos I love
adventure, stories of the ancient times
and anything related to real life story.
😇Silvia #When I’m less busy, I enjoy taking a long
walk; going to the beach, fishing, playing
pool, sport and I like anything that has to do
with the enjoyment of water or listening to
the waves of the beach along side with a
#cool music. My favorite colors are Green,
Blue and Black and my favorite meal are
sea foods, Chinese and Mexican. My Type
of music varies from blues to R&b to
country music to rock. My woman can
have personal time for herself, no stress
#Family is what I cherish most in life cos
family is it that holds the present, the
future and
generations to come; blood is certainly
thicker than water… I love family a lot! The
wise saying that “IF YOU CAN’T FLY, RUN;
IF U CAN’T RUN, WALK; IF YOU CAN’T
WALK, CRAWL; BY ALL MEANS, KEEP
MOVING” seems the best saying in my
world and that is why I never look back.
#Well, the only thing lagging in my life now
is that lovely woman that will follow me to my dream land. I believe ‘ONLY THOSE
WHO SEEKER, FIND’, and that is why I
want to get to know you. I prefer direct
email
contact cos I don’t want to come on this
site all the time. Kindly email me on my
yahoo account at ‘benjohnson2244’ or
#your email address. Sometimes, we are
dump-founded to answer love related
matters cos love is beyond human
thinking. It’s
a natural thing from God Himself. Hope to
hear from u asap. Cheers!
Ben
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4. (IF SHE’S COMPLAINING ABOUT
DISTANCE, TRY THIS)
Well, I do believe it is too early to discuss
distance because wherever I find my true
love is where I would live for the rest of
my
life. If you find a wicked love close to you
and a true love far away, I bet you would
wait for the true love to come rather than
go
for the close wicked love that will end up
#hurting your feelings. True love knows no
bound nor distance nor limit. It doesn’t
need
a map either cos it will always find its
way. There is something in me that wants
to continue with you and for your
information,
this is my time on a dating site in my
whole life. We should get to know each
other and see where life leads us. I am
matured
#enough and I know what I want in life. I
mean I am looking for a relationship that
would be my last till my dieing days. I’ve
got a
million words to say to you but I would
prefer a better communication via personal
emails as I wouldn’t like to come on a
dating
site all the time. I am a one woman man
and so I rather get going with you and you
alone. Looking forward to your response /
email. Cheers!
Ben
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6. (IF SHE DOES NOT GIVE HER EMAIL
AND TALK OF PHONE CALLS, SEND THIS)
Hi ……,
Each time
I log on this site, I see over 10 new
women winking but I really don’t like it cos
I’m a one woman man; I hate cheats and I
have never done that in my whole days
of living. Please if you can help me stop
coming to this site, I would so much
appreciate it. I have got a million words to
say to
you but not any more on this site. Kindly
email me at my gmail account,
‘biggoldenben’ or give me your email
address.
#Phone is good but email is better because
email has reference while phone does not.
When you read messages, you can go
back there any time in the future and read
it all over again but phone calls allow
words to disappear into the air. Don’t get
me
wrong, I would love to hear your voice but
I think it’s better we start this way.
Looking forward to your swift response.
Ben.
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(ONCE YOU HAVE HER EMAIL, MAKE
SURE THIS IS THE FIRST THING YOU
SEND TO HER BUT IF SHE EMAIL YOU
TO YOUR PERSONAL EMAIL FIRST,
PROCEED TO FB)
FA}
Topic: Ben From Ourtime
Hi Angel …..,
#I’m so excited to read from you so soon.
Please confirm you receive this message
so I could send more about me. I am
looking for my second half, a woman to
spend the remaining seconds of my life
with.
Waiting to here from you,
Smiles~
Ben.
#Send This On Dating Site: Hi there, I did
sent you an email already. Please keep in
touch on there. Cheers!
Hello ….,
I am so happy to read from you and most
importantly, to know we are both looking
for the same thing in life. Where do I start
from? Really, it is disturbing to go on that
dating site to see how much people
appreciate love, but yet, we have to go theextra
mile to get this great status. I have a
beautiful home in stockton,CA and seeks a
beautiful angel, both inward and outward.
#Forgive my manners, my name is Ben
Johnson, a global contractor.I own my
construction company I deal basically in
oil
platforms, rig constructions, renovations,
over water bridges, interior decors and
some art works. Trust me, I can add to
your
beauty (lol). But I am really thinking of
hanging the hat this year. Been through
many ups and downs in life, yet, I am
blessed
in some other ways. I mean after getting
#to the top of success, I have come to
realize that we are nothing without a
partner. I
mean someone who would stand by me no
matter the situation. A woman who I can
say, she alone has the right to be
womanly irritating to me (lol). A witch
who would protect me like a lioness would do her cub (lol).
And I can promise to protect her beyond
#all vices. A woman who tells me, honey,
you can do it, no matter what I want to
do. I
have really worked hard in the past 12 yrs
to get to this height.
I have seen faces of women on that site,
#many of whom have been taken for
granted, many of whom are not being
reciprocated, but I have come with a good
news and a bad news. The good news is, I
am here to pick my woman to make
happy, my second half, my best friend, my
co-pilot, but the bad news is, I have only
one woman to do this for (lol).

via email cos I do not want to go on a
dating site ever again.
Ben
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#I must tell you this secret, I have a
wonderful heart, when I am in a state to
choose among many, I let my heart do it and it has
never been wrong. There are millions of
women on that dating site, I joined and I
#was so hopeful that despite the number of
women, I will certainly go for my own
destined woman. My heart never go wrong
and when it pushes me to you, I knew I
was
going the right path. So glad you are one
of my kind, we are both open minded and
ready to fall in love in the hands of that
wonderful partner.
I guess you should truly know who I am. I
don’t really know how this works but here
#is an exclusive. If at my age I do not know
what I want and when to say it, then what
would I be? When a wise man sees he has
probably spent about half of his time in
life already, he begins to assess his main
goals in life. What could be more
important than a happy ending? A man
needs to
#live his life full of joy and happiness, no
matter his achievements, he is reduced to
nothing if he has no crown to complete
him
and that is a woman to call his own wife
and best friend. A woman who knows that
even while arguing they still need to hold
hands. A woman whom I can call a partner
in crime (lol). A woman whom you can tell
anything and everything. How could you
think anything can make you happier in life
than finding a love that knows no bound.
To make you know more about me, I will
break this down into segments and it
would be like a case study. If you ever had
a French kiss, I bet you would be happy to
know I have a French background; English
is my second language so I have an
accent. All my life, I have a story of only
one
woman to tell. And if I were told I would
be on a dating site someday, I will never
My mother is a French woman while
my late dad is an American, born in New
Berlin, NY. I was born in France but moved
to the States the same year and at age 5,
we lost dad and mom decided to move
back to Paris because she couldn’t cope.
My
aunt who is also married to an American
took me from mom and brought me up.
They have a house in Cairo so we all
stayed
there as one family. Also, I spent my
school life in Cairo; graduated from Cairo
University as an Architect. But because
she
and her husband speak only English, I
don’t understand my mother’s language till
today. It bothers me at times but I
promise
mom to learn it in this life time. Probably,
after this project is completed, since I
won’t need to be working any more, I will
enrol
myself in a French class. I am the only
child of my parents so I would say mom is
the only person I have in my life and
hopefully, you. My aunt was a great impact
to my life but you know some people come
to our life for a season. I think that was
what god wanted her to do and that was
fulfilled long time ago. I really can’t thank
her enough! Mom said Aunt and family
recently relocated to Australia. I do wish
them well but haven’t heard from them in
a long while.
35yrs ago, I moved to New Berlin, NY to
start my career as an architect because I
have faith in the God’s own country and I
tell
you what, I am successful! I met Mary in
Paris but again in the States and we got
married. Till the very moment she left this
world, she was every thing in my life and I
will never forget the good old days. Those
days are what I am looking for once
again. A woman that will be my life and
every thing.
#I am so happy we are both matured
enough to understand what we need in life.
Please do not blame my feelings! I don’t
want
to lie to you nor to myself so I urge you to
#be happy that you have a man who
expresses himself just the way he feels
rather
than pretend or lie. The truth is, a journey
of a thousand years start with a single
step. The best we can do is what we are
doing now and once I get to you, we can
get married without any regrets. If you
cannot know me now and love me for me,
believe me, you will not love me when we
are together. Love knows no bound and
#distance makes us know if truly we are in
love or not. One can not wait till one
meets a man or a woman before one
decides to love one another cos if that is
the only
way it works, there won’t be dating sites.
Let me make an illustration here perhaps it
will help you hit the right point

(#)Believe it. Sometimes in 2002, I lived
happily
with Mary, a wonderful angel; a wife any
man would pray for and two blessed
beautiful kids that stood as my shinning
glory.
But it is so sad to say they are no more! I
hate to say this but I lost them in a fatal
accident. I watched them lying dead in a pool
of blood!!! As much as I adore my family,
the inevitable death took them all in one
day and life suddenly turned around my
table of great joy into a terrible agony.
Such is life! Sometimes we pass through
situations we do not have control of and
we
only do nothing but bear whatever it is.
#Thank you so much for your condolence!
Life is full of miseries and ironies, the
most important thing is our willingness to
stand
to our challenges and wanting to move on
with life once again. As it is said that
winners never quit and quitters never win; I
know we are winners.

#just want a woman who would be my best
friend and everything. You know someone
whom we would still love each other more
as the days pass by, even when we cant
make love anymore and all we could do is
play bingo and lots more (lol).

#about that but I would like for us to share each
moment of our life together. No matter
how independent my woman is, I would
still love to give her every thing and any
thing;
like taking her shopping every weekend. TV
programs are good and I would love to sit
close to my woman watching a lovely
program. I hope this has giving you an
insight about who I am. If there is any
thing still missing that you need to know, I am an
open book and will honestly answer any
question. I hope to hear from you again.
Much Smiles!
Ben
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FD} (ATTACH THREE OF YOUR PICTURES
WITH THIS FORMAT)
Topic: Hello Wonderful Angel,
I really appreciate this consistent
communication and I would say it is a
sign of WILL. And I tell you, wherever there is a WILL,
there is a WIN. I appreciate every word in
your response and I’m glad we both know
exactly what we are looking for in life.

#I believe we both know that Love is not a
destination but a journey and this is a
journey that takes two to walk. I mean two
souls who understand ahead that they
aren’t in for a kid walk, and what they
have ahead is the most important mission
in life;
#a place meant for true people. It is a place
called joy and happiness paradise. Sweet
Apple, I would also be stupid not to be a
man of a woman like you. Really, I just see
in your face that I can live with this
woman, not the beauty part alone, but thedepth 5
of your soul.
#As I could remember, as a kid, I was a
very cute one (lol). One whom many
bullies would target, but only to realize
there is a
tough side of me. I could make a sober
person dance; I could affect one with my
smile. I grew up having more older friends.
Many would confide in me. To tell you, I
am a type that doesn’t judge. No matter
how dirty you may be, just come to me,
and I
will give my support.
#There is no Mr Right until we make him
right and there is no Mrs Right until we
make her right. A relationship is never
about
how much at the beginning but how much
we could make it grow into. My old friend
who is a pastor would tell me, if you aren’t
ready to fall or look stupid, then don’t fall
in love (lol). But sincerely that is the bitter
truth! When I lost my wife and kids, I
feared
#love until I recalled that if it touched a
heart, it would make the darkness fade
into an endless sunny days. Can you prove
that
right?
I have come to realize that, let a man
write a better book, let him preach a better
sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let
him
gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced
to nothing except he has a woman to call,
my wife, my best friend and co-pilot.
My usual saying, and I am known for it, is
#that, ‘life is simple for those who take it
simple’. I don’t like to complicate things,
there
is joy in every situation if you know the
right angle to look it from.
My mother is very old now and at almost
91, she can still sing. Now she cant wait
to have me come visit her in Paris with my
second half, and I cant wait to have a
happy home too. After my last project here
in Johannesburg, SA, I am quitting field
works (in only three weeks time). Any
other job would only require my attention
from my home office wherever I go. I want
to
spend the remaining seconds of my life
with my woman.
I have a house in the States,I have one in
Dubai, but if life turns around and I have
no home any more, are you the type that
#will stand by your man to build one?
Would you smile at your man when he
looks tense? I don’t need a super model, I
rather
need a very good friend who knows when I
am tensed just by looking into my eyes
and a super woman. The whole world may
be mad at me, but if my woman is smiling
at me, I would care less.
Who says we cant pick rags and turn to
riches? Who says we cant design our own
paradise together. It is workable just walk
by my side, please send me more pictures
of your beautiful self. Here is a song
(http://www.youtube.com/watch?
v=EXRUoyaauw)
specially for you, please listen to it with
your heart, body and soul. Every word in it
is a dedication to you. Looking
forward to your email.
Still smiling!
Ben
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FE} (IF YOU HAVE A WEBSITE FOR YOUR
DATING, IT IS BEST TO SEND THIS AND
FF FROM THE DOMAIN EMAIL OF
YOUR COMPANY. IF NOT, WHY NOT?
LOL)
Dearest …….,
I am in the middle of work and very busy
now. You already make me feel like the
luckiest man on earth. I will write you
again
first thing when I’m free cos I’ll be
thinking and thinking of you all through.
My dream is to travel to all the beautiful
places and see all the wonders in the
world with my woman. I can’t wait to be
on the
London eye side by side with my woman,
to be in Paris to see my mother and all its
beauty, in the gorgeous Sydney Australia,
in the beautiful Bahamas, once again in
Dubai to spend time together in my house
(if I haven’t found a tenant before then)
and
the rest of the world.
Meeting you and hopefully, starting a new
life with you is the surest thing. Just be
patient, I will be retired in only few weeks.
Sending smiles~
Ben
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FF} (WHETHER SHE CALLS YOU FIRST
OR SHE HAS GIVEN YOU HER PHONE
NUMBER, START TALKING TO HER ON
6
PHONE AFTER THIS FORMAT. IF SHE
REPLIES THIS FORMAT WITHOUT
LEAVING HER NUMBER, YOU MUST ASK
AGAIN AND AGAIN UNTIL YOU HAVE IT.
CALL HER AT LEAST ONCE IN EVERY
TWO DAYS BUT BEST IS EVERY DAY.
PHONE CALLS ARE MUST SO DON’T
DULL!)
TOPIC: How it Works
Darling, good morning to you and thank
you for the sweet message. This joy in me
since we started writing one another, is
the
best I have felt so far in many years and I
pray it grows and never die. I am at work
#already. How was your night?
Like I told you earlier, whatever you need
to know about me, just ask and I’ll
honestly answer. I think you should know
these as
well. nt. When you
#meet a man who is handsome and you too
look sexy and you both meet at a cafe or
mall, without knowing any thing about
each other, your minds jump and most of
your decisions would be controlled by
what your are seeing, I mean the
handsome in
him and your sexy look will make most of
the decisions for both of you and before
you even get to know one another, you are
already making love and having sex and
before long, you begin to know the person
and in the end, he might never be the right
man for you and you may not be the right
woman for him. Then, it is already late to
make some corrections, but all you can do
is to say farewell to each other. That hurts
I bet! But if you both meet in writing just
like the real dating works, both of you have
not seen each other apart from the
pictures and if you can express yourselves
and fall in love under such condition, then
I
promise that when you both meet, the
main chemistry is already there and such
relationship would last forever and ever.
This
is the reason I joined the dating site; to
look for my own woman, my best friend,
my own wife, my own love, my sweetheart,
my
co-pilot, my angel, my all and every thing,
#someone that will love me for me no
matter the condition and she is sure to get
more of equal love. I am so happy my
heart is in for you and wants you for the
rest of my days. I urge you not to lie to
yourself
as well. You had joined the dating site as
a matured woman knowing fully well that a
serious relationship has to be built first
through writing and then you meet for the
main chemistry. I really can’t wait to hold
my woman’s hand, stand in front of a
pastor and have him pronounce us as
husband and wife. I want to live a proper
life with my woman.
I think we should really take this to
another level. let me hear the voice of an
angel. Be warned I have been told I have
an
unsorted accent, but sexy (lol). You can
always kiss me on 01127781701978. lol
Please write me first thing when you get
my message, I’m waiting. I want you to tell
me all you think I should know about you
#and if you still think there is something I
haven’t told you, keep asking and I’ll
always answer.
With much love,
Ben
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FG} (IF SHE INSISTS ON GETTING TO
KNOW YOU FIRST AFTER ‘FF’ FORMAT
ABOVE, SEND THIS. IF NOT, YOU CAN
EITHER SEND THIS OR JUST MOVE TO
FH ‘HELLO DIAMOND’, THE FORMAT
BELOW. BUT THIS FORMAT IS VERY
7
GOOD GENERALLY.)
TOPIC: I HOPE YOU KNOW
Sweetest of souls,
Good morning to you sweetest of souls.
What a heart taking message to wake up
to. You simply grabed me by the head and
I
felt your kiss (lol). Been thinking about
you most of my night / day and I don’t
ever want to stop. I will find time to call
you today.
Oh! You brought tears of joy to my eyes, I
was totally moved by your message.
Thank you for being you …….!
As regards all our conversation, the things
we have known about each other, the
lovely pictures, I make bold to say, ‘I love
you!’ I want you to look at those pictures
of ours, do you ever think any other person
could match us? My answer is NO! We
are created for each other. No matter who
we are, no matter how stone hearted we
may be, every human being knows what
they feel immediately they see the opposite
sex, be it in the picture or physically. If
you feel just likeness for someone, you
know. If you feel like having sex with
someone, you know. If you feel you want
someone to be yours forever, you also
know. All
#these feelings are our bodies telling us
what they want. But instead of most
people giving their bodies and spirit what
they
want, they tend to give them bad food, I
mean bad partners. And you know, the
bodies will reject them either immediately
or
someday. You might have been through a
terrible past just like me, but it shouldn’t
destroy our yet to come, beautiful future.
Because,
Many people spend so much time thinking
they can create love. NO! That is
impossible but only a waste of time. If
truly, love
#can be created by mankind, we won’t have
any broken heart. Every relationship that
takes long before the partners fall in love
will have a happy end. But nah, most love
life people spend time building often end in
tragedy. To be candid, which love are
we building? A duplex or a mansion or a
small room? Very funny! Or has any one
ever seen love physically? lol. It’s not
human
created phenomenon, its like a spirit, it
enters into those who submit to it. We all
#need to start seeing the other side of the
coin
because it is the side facing down, only
powerful minds can see it.
Listening to my body, soul, mind, heart and
spirit, it is you I want. Not just for a period
but for ever and ever. Back into our
pasts, we gave in all but still, look at
where we are today. Still on the same road
#like someone in a circular path, always
returning to the same point; looking for our
second half. Why not hold hands and just
walk straight. And to be candid, there are
#three major attributes of true love, of every
good relationship that lasts forever. Those
attributes are what we need to put into
great consideration. They are
understanding, tolerance and endurance.
Every wonderful partners that live together
until their
dieing days must have passed through a
lot, I mean, they must have been through
some really hard time. But because they
understand themselves, tolerate one
another and endure whatever situation they
find themselves, their life seems magical
as if
they have special bond holding them
together. And every relationship that ever
#crashed surely lack those attributes either
from
one of the partners or both of them. I
know at this point of our lives, we are no
longer kids, I don’t think we would have
any
reason to break one’s heart. In my past, I
have never done that and you didn’t also,
you can see we are good people meeting
at the best time of our lives.
#Sometimes I do not blame the past
because if not for the past, there won’t be
our present. As far as we are not the bad
type,
god surely prepare us for a better future, a
better place and a better life. Love is never
#created or controlled by mankind but by
god himself. Tell me who wouldn’t like to
fall in love? If we earn the whole world,
gather all those treasures on this planet
combined with the ones in all other planets
and there is no love in our life, certainly
we got nothing. Show me a Jack that
wouldn’t die for Mary to live? Show me a
Prince of Troy that wouldn’t do anything
for the love of Ellen? Maximus died for he
loved his wife, his children and his
country. America is God’s own country
only because of the love for the whole
world. Tell me
#……, what would we be if we don’t let love
steal our souls?
When we are finally together ~
And you look into my eyes ~
You will see what you mean to me ~
Every thing I want to do for the rest of my
life ~
I want to do them for you, for love and for
us ~
You will love this (http://
www.youtube.com/watch?
v=ZGoWtY_h4xo)
Please take good care of yourself for me.
Your love,
B’Gold
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FH} (Edit before u send)
Topic: Hello Diamond,
I got your message and looked at your
picture over and over again, you are a true
diamond, you are priceless, a blessing and
an angel. Thank you for so much care.
In 2004, two years after I lost my family, I
moved to Coral Springs, Florida, because
#the house in New Berlin, NY where I used
to live with my family, was becoming
scary to me. Imagination of them still
living in the house almost got me crazy.
But I thank
god I have overcome my fears, I am alive,
full awaken again. Thank you for coming
into my life at the very right time.

#you will love it for I find humor in almost
every
thing no matter the situation. I can turn
tears into endless laughter and bring smile
to a sad face. I am gifted in making people
happy. I want a woman to love and to love
me now and forever.
#…#……. Please take good
care of yourself and remember Ben
cares. Each time I think about you, a star
falls from the sky; so if you look outside
your window today and see no star, its all
your fault for you made me think about
you too much. Now I have your picture in
my wallet, another one on my bed, another
one in the bathroom and another one in my
heart. I want you around me every where
and any where.
Please take it easy with work and take
good care of yourself.
Yours Forever,
Ben.
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Topic: How Are You Most Wonderful?
Angel ….,
#Good morning wonderful one! How are you
today? To be honest with you, my night
was full of the thought about our life to
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begin. So please tell me, who are you? A
woman being a goddess? Or a goddess
pretending to be a woman? Whichever you
are, you are doing something special to me
(lol). I mean after all these years, I would
have thought I might not have the
possibilities again of having my dream
woman, my partner, my best friend and co-
pilot.
#I wouldn’t be scared anyway, because
truly, love is not about finding the right
person, but creating a right relationship.
#It’s not
about how much love you have in the
beginning but how much love you build till
#the end. The inevitable truth is, if it is
meant to
be, our hearts will find each other
regardless of the distance apart. nd if
our hearts melt together so will our bodies
and souls.
Then every word and every touch will fuel
our passion flame. I will be yours, you will
be mine, and we will be one, forever and
ever.
#Absolutely I have come to know that we
spend most of our life seeking for the
secondary needs, while our primary needs
are
left unseen. We have worked so hard and
attained some wealth right? But for what
purpose? To be realistic, except if you just
want to be known as a rich person, #wealth
means nothing if you have no best friend
to share it with. All the millions are
useless
indeed. How much do we need to eat?
How much do we need for shelter? How
much do we need for daily fun? Excess
and
excess leads us to vanity. But for few of
#us who value the simplicity, we sure would
do well in finding happiness. As I always
say, money can buy a good bed, but never
will money buy sleep; It can buy the best
diamond watch, but can never buy time; it
can buy piles of books, but cant buy
knowledge; it can buy food, but not
satisfaction; MONEY can buy sex, but can
NEVER
buy love. That is why I refuse to follow the
crowd. So as my own man, I would give
up all that can be bought for that which
cant
be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I
want my woman to have power over my
moods.

#to be sincere, he inspired me. I am ready
to travel any where and live any where in
the world so far that would please my
woman.
I am being true to my feelings, as my old
friend would say, never question if you are
in love or not, because if you were you
wouldn’t need to ask. So the best of men
would accept what they feel without
questions, because truly, Love and death
cant
be escaped, no one can tell when, how, or
#where. It is never too early or too late.
What is more important to one is the love
we share, the memories we have or the
feelings within. Give love a chance to
swallow you up. Don’t just think it will
happen in an instant, it will surprise you
before you know it, but it will be the most
rewarding experience you will ever have. If
#you are as open minded and simple as me,
I can promise you that the sky would
be the beginning.
#Now, lets talk about True Love:
In my own word, true love is a natural
phenomenon… its from God himself… one
can not build true love like trust… love
built by
humans soon collapse… true love is so
powerful, so strong, so uncontrollable and
that is why you hear some say it is blind…
true love can capture any body at any time
and make even the saddest man a fool for
love… true love is unconditional, it
doesn’t ask why?… true love understands,
it tolerates and endures… true love never
dies, it never fades, it gets stronger with
every morning sun shine and every night
moon… true love does not warn ahead…
many have fallen in love the very first day
#they met and get married and yet live
happily for the rest of their lives… and
many have dated for many years thinking
they can
build true love like trust and in the end,
they brake up seconds after wedding… so
#true love is god’s will and comes to those
who believe in it… true love is all about
how well and never how far… no matter
the distance there-is between two lovers,
the
love yet grow stronger… true love is joy
and happiness, a certain kind of sharing
that holds two hearts together in
tenderness
and caring… true love is the love that lives
even after death… the love for our dead is
another type of true love and that is why
we remember all the time and pray for
them… even though some dead are gone
for thousand years, their living families
remember them like they left yesterday…
#but despite all the wonderful nature of true
love, it has a bitter side that makes the
world feel it does not exist any longer…
true love is often not reciprocal… that we
love someone does not always mean they
love us back… that is such a painful
nature of true love… yet true love can
reciprocate… when true love is reciprocal,
such
#lovers live together and never let go…
those are kind of few marriages that
survive in our universe today… the kind of
marriage
I want with you.
Could you tell me your ideology about true
love and life? Looking forward to your
sweet self.
Hugs!
Ben
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TOPIC: How Are You My Sunshine,
##Hello my sunshine (LOL)! You must
wonder why I call you sunshine. Can’t get
the picture of you off my mind. I feel like
giving a
hug (lol). Just as the sun lights up the
earth, you light up my life.                         # The only one I
have met, with a heart so bright. Just
seems
like yesterday, you came around my way,
you changed my whole scene right away,
with your outstanding personalty.
#The only reason this was possible is
because you must have portrayed yourself
well and you have been yourself. That is
good,
#because if I ever fall in love with you for
beauty, I wouldn’t walk more than miles to
see more beauty; if I love you for wealth, I
wouldn’t walk more miles to see more; if I
love you for smiles, I would see more on
comedy shows (lol). But the only thing I
can
fall in love with is you, that can’t be gotten
by anyone else because its being YOU!
That is absolutely what no one can ever
be.
Like I said, it takes a life time to try
knowing the reason why you feel the way
you do with some people. The answers are
never
there. Trust me, the day relationships
starts falling is the day people can figure
out the exact reason they have loved each
other.
#Life is boring if perfect. Life is worse when
there is nothing to change about anything.
#The balance in life is based on the facts
that, there must be thieves and criminals
for the police to remain employed. The
medical practitioners would run out of
business if we are all hale and hearty. The
legal practitioners would die of boredom if
there aren’t offenders. If everyone are
vegetarians, Oh my! Guess how many
people would not earn a living.
White gained from black, blacks earn from
white. If everyone is rich, wealth would be
meaningless. Who would do the laundry?
Who would drive the car? who would
guard who? who would keep whose
money? lol. The essence for this short
word is that, if
you can read the meaning in this, you are
#my woman for sure. The moral of the
speech is that, we were all created for
each
other. There is much fun in helping. We
can all be better if we accept the fact that
we cant live without each other.
#The world would be a better place if we
can start accepting things we cant
change. Because , the only constant thing
in life is,
CHANGE! Siting here thinking about you,
brings out a part of me that loves
everything (lol).                                           #I have a proposal for youthis
wonderful day. Because I know you at
least care about me, after all you wake up
to check on my email and know if I am
still
alive (lol). That is something, so I want
your help today.
There is this woman whom I just met, and
I could be scared about how she has
gotten my attention, but I would be stupid
to
submit to fears. I noticed that she already
has a place that can not be replaced in my
heart. Who could ever think of hurting
such a woman who only wants happiness?
I want you to help me find her and tell her,
I am not known for fears. I know a
journey of a thousand years start with a
single step. A man who wants to fly must
at least learn to stand on his feet! Tell her
if
#she is willing, I would love to take her
hands. I am a man who gives nothing but
everyt