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As you know, home is commonly considered the most peaceful and reliable place throughout each individual’s life. However, there are still many family problems existing; and the whole society, to a certain extent, has raised great concern about negative effects they have on every generation in the family. So let’s pay some attention to some typical of those problems.
The first, as well as the most serious issue we are mentioning is domestic violence. We usually catch sight of some breaking news saying that parents hurt or even kill their children; vice versa, an adult disrespects his/her old parents. Moreover, some children are forced to work very hard to earn money, and do something that they shouldn’t do or are not capable of. Another instance is that, in terms of the relationship between husband and wife, the man tends to commit rude behavior against the woman more often. In fact, any behavior that can be harmful to not only physical but also mental health will be regarded as immoral and of course, illegal. But, what makes the problem worse is that the victims still consider domestic violence a private affair in the family. They usually quiet, because they worry about the peace in the family. Recent researches show only 6 percent went to hospital, 16 percent bought medicine to treat themselves at home, and surprisingly up to 52 percent did nothing to leave the injury to heal by itself. They only report when they can no longer stand the abuse. Actually, most cases have come to light thanks to the help of friends and neighbor.
The second issue we should take notice of is parental overprotecting. The children who receive too much care from their parents tends to be dependent on other people. They lack the skills of managing bad situations and even don’t know what is necessary for their lives, and what they should stay away from. Moreover, they won’t make any real effort to get the thing they want, and turn to others’ help instead. They will become selfish, and would prefer to receive rather than to give and to share.
Besides, some other issues also strongly affect children are parents’ divorce, overexpectation and bad habits, bad behaviors from the parents. Nevertheless, a considerable number of teenagers nowadays have been spoiled due to bad things such as smoking, spending money too much, taking or dealing drug, street racing, robbing and so on.
Those problems lead to an unhappy family, and are making young generation become inactive, unethical and insensitive. Therefore, above all, as the problems are at an alarming rate, we should take action against them immediately.