Notes

I'm sure if you're a sensitive person, you often feel that you want to help to your loved ones. This is normal! However, you can't solve their problem if they don't want to. This is not your fault.
There're two types of people who may need your help. This is my own opinion how I see them and how I help myself to living in a honest and safe world.

So, the first type are the ' eternal sufferers ', I know...I know you know a lot of these people. You probably never see changes in a good way on their behavior when they talk about their problems. They always talk about the same problem, however they never change, just talking. I don't want to hurt you, but they don't need your help, just your ears. They want to talk about what or who hurts them about that one problem you hear everytime you're with them. I know how does it feel when you want to talk about your life and they're don't care about you. It's because they're don't understand your mind & soul. I'm sorry that they never want to solve their own problem, just talk about how much it hurts.
I know it's hard, if you really want to solve it, you could do it! It's up to you. Don't just talk, do something for your happiness!

So, the second type are the ' lack of motivations '. They're who really need your help! Have their own problems, they're afraid to change it, afraid to do something new for themself. They look like the first type sometimes. However you see they thinking about what you saying and see understaning in their eyes. They need your motivation. If you want to help to someone, you have to help to yourself first! Solve your problems in you, around you. Creat new things in your life what you really need, and they'll see changes in your aura. They'll feel you're motivating them and want to be as free as you're. After this you could be a lighthouse in their life and they'll accept your help.
You have to be yourself, get the best out of you! If you want to bring a big change in someone life please support them in their most difficult moments too. Just start it if you're strong enough. You've a big responsibility about the people in your life. Don't let them down if they're in a bad mood, give them more love and support!

(Be careful don't let the first type take your kindness & helpfulness away from the second type. Everyone could change to be a second type!)
It's very hard to live in today's world. I fight a lot with myself, I don't want to let myself to hiding behind a mask. I wanna be free! I wanna help people who feel they have to hide, live in full of secrets. Everyone is important, you're important! You can never know whose life you could change and how much change they can make in your life.