Notes

Pre-Foreplay:
Starting off - get close, kiss face/neck, pick her up (getting in the mood with clothes on); start pulling at clothes and teasing at taking them off.

Derobing:
Clasped bra - pinch center of back and pull away top half of clasp.
Sports bra - let her take it off.
Panties - grab waist area, through bands and pull down. Laying down - lift butt up and pull from under her.

Foreplay:
Foreplay spots: neck, ears, nape of neck, jaw/neck meeting point, hands/fingers, boobs (don't focus too much on nipples, work with it all), stomach, backkkk, thighs, butt, crotch area; keep moving to avoid making it boring.

Vagina Foreplay:
Tease up to it, start from above - between legs/stomach - massaging around crotch area until she starts getting wet / grinding hand.
Move into playing with outside - no penetration. Could squeeze middle with fingers like holding a cigarette, but don't move into middle yet. Be gentle with middle and more hands on around it, not too gentle. Stay gentle around clit at top in the beginning - can be rougher later.
Inner lips are next, but can be fairly sensitive. Tease putting fingers into vagina, but don't move in yet. If she's dry at this point, spit on hand (or use lube) - the wetter the better. At size and girth, should have lube on hand for tight fit. The more turned on she is, the bigger the opening will get.
Now can move to clit, be careful of anything sharp. Press clit a little and rub in circular motions (1-2 fingers) or rub up and down. For head, press tongue into clit and do circular motions. If she squirms, hold her legs and keep her down - it may be intense because she will be getting close to cumming.

Fingering / Insertion:
When you have teased her clit and she is wet enough, start with one finger and massage outside of her vagina. Then move to the inside; press finger inside and drag up, starting from the bottom. Can start making circle motions inside or go in all the way. In the back, there will be a g spot ball that you want to work up to, slowly working your way in and out, teasing her as well.
Then move on to two fingers, repeating the same motions so that you can begin to stretch her out. Additionally, you can start spreading your fingers inside to do the same (after some regular two finger play). Want a "come hither" motion with two fingers inside her. Can also play with her clit, taking turns or do both at the same time.
Finally, can move to three fingers to stretch her further, but when she is close/has cum, you want to move into penetration.

Penetration:
Start by rubbing head of penis against the inside of the vagina to get the tip wet, then slowly start pushing in. Want to go in (tip), then come out, then go in a little bit more and repeat in order to stretch. You'll need to spread her open with a hand in order to keep it smooth. When you reach the end of the vaginal cavity, be careful not to push too hard or force more than can fit.
When you can fully fit, you want to keep moving your penis in and out (not fully out), can also rub the clit while you do it. Listen if she wants you to go faster, but try to go slowly and work up to it.
Incorporate breaks by taking penis all the way out and teasing her more before going back in.

Insecurity:
Girls can be insecure about their vagina/body and this is an intimate activity so be sure to compliment them and make them feel good about sharing the moment with you. Never too much talking so communicate with them unless they tell you to shut up. Be sure to listen to them and not do anything too fast/hard.

Setting the Mood:
Be sure to have protection and talk about what everyone wants beforehand, make sure she is comfortable. Candles are great at setting the mood. Use some cologne, but not too much (make sure you are clean, smell nice). Have towels handy nearby for afterwards (baby wipes are also great for clean up). Music can set the mood as well. Make sure that there is time afterwards to enjoy each other and cuddle/talk/chill. Really make sure that you communicate, ask if she likes things while you do them / if they feel good (she likely won't know what she wants), ask if she is ready to cum, can ask where she wants you to put it.

Blowjobs:
Can be hit or miss, likely need to ask. Put hands on back of neck, hair, whatever is comfortably in reach. Don't leave them just sitting there. You have to work up to fitting it in, don't force anything in and work slowly. Reacting and being expressive makes it more enjoyable. Warn her when you are about to cum / ask where she wants it to avoid a bad situation. Teeth are hard to incorporate so ask her not to use them if she implies she will. A healthy lifestyle is all that will really make your cum taste better.

Overview:
Be slow, steady, and confident.
Communicate and ask what she is thinking/feeling.
Moaning, screaming, quivering, squirming, and grinding show that she is enjoying it - keep doing it.
Listen if she tells you to do more/faster - she is enjoying it.
Try not to cum in eyes, nose, ears, or hair because it will be hard to clean (which you will be doing).
Guys tend to get hot afterwards while girls get cold, so be ready to combat that (cuddling or otherwise).

Enjoy it and have fun so that it will be great.
(don't take it too seriously)