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its very hard, but we need to keep this in mind. We need to be very careful about everything that is happening around us. The thing which happens-it maybe small or big doesnt matter, but it shoudnt hram anyone. EMOTIONS. They are very fragile like a glass bottle. If it is disturbed it may cause a problem(sometimes it maybe big and cause a very big problem). It is very dangerous. That is why people tell you think before you talk. For example take ('it is' and 'is it') there is a lot of difference wright. So, the words in that are same but when the words got vice-versa the meaning got changed completely. So, the words you use varry a lot differnce. Let me tell you my real life example. I eat a lot and i now its not healthy, but i tempt a lot. My father tells me not to eat and he controls me a lot and he takes my ipad and other elctronics and hid it because i use them a lot. He tells all that for my own benifit, but i dont understand that. So, i used to be very rude to him and dont talk to him until he gives my ipad back. Because of my dad thinking of me and making my behaviour good and making me try to go on the right path, i would be very harsh and rude to him. He would be very lonely. He dont have his parents too... and all he has is me, my brother and my mom ofcource his brother and all his favorite people including my dog. With whom would he share when there is a problem ofcource with my mom but when there is a problem in the house. He travels a lot and he wanted to spend time with his family, he comes home for three to four days in a week and if on those days also if there is a problem and there will be no one with him when he goes to his office, by the way his office is in sri lanka and we live in India. He feels very lonely because of us i mean me, my brother and my mom. This doesnt mean we fight a lot, but those sometimes may become somany times if we dont stop. We actually hurt his emotions and we dont know how that feels. So, one day he told how he feels when he go to Sri lanka like he feels lonely and there will be no one to share and try to understand him. So from then atleast me, in the house descided to listen to him and undersatnd him. See which parent will tell false to their own kids ahh... So try to understand people dont misunderstand them. No one will have negativity in them and have intentions to hurt peoples emontions. So in my example me and my dad love each other and dont have intentions to hurt each other, but the thing is misunderstandings between us. So please understand people and try to talk with them and try to clear the misunderstanding. TALK. it is actually a solution for somany problems. Talk. If u dont talk how will you recognize the problem and solve. So be positive, take out the negativity from you, dont hury people, understand people and talk with people dont hesitate.
Thank You....... Dedicated to my DAD......JVLU