Notes

A different type of FR:

I've been seeing this really sweet girl for 3 months now. Been spinning other plates on the side, but have mostly focused on this one. Have done some things right, some things wrong. Here's a few notes:

-Don't stop focusing on yourself. Don't become complacent.
-Don't be alpha chad thundercock 100% of the time. Give some slack, but only on exception. Make her work for it. Eventually she will know what gives a positive response and she will act on it.
-If and when you talk about feelings, make sure you REALLY feel what you articulate. Don't say things, just to make her happy. Understand what it is you are feeling for her, then sincerely tell her. Don't overthink either.
-Create value through scarcity. You shouldn't have to fake this, but don't be available 24/7, eventually this will lead to her respecting your time less.
-If you want to do something for her, i.e spend money on her, make sure you feel like she deserves it. Don't do it to gain more points or whatever. You are the prize and she's a lucky girl to be with you.
-When you execute something romantic, make sure you do it with a plan. For example, if you take her out, go to the place the day before to make sure you get the best table at the place (window seat, not next to the door, candles set up, etc. Talk to the manager of the place and explain what you are planning. Most of the time these people are thrilled that you are willing to include them in your story. They will go the extra mile for you. Treat everyone as they are the lead character in your story.
-Never ask her what to do. Make clear decisions and have her follow you.
-She doesn't want to lead. However, if she suggest something for you to do and it is specified, let her take charge. She is doing it to get points. She wants to make you happy and she knows you can get anyone you want, so she's fighting over you.
-When you are intimate and she's going on her monologue about how she likes you, stfu and let her talk. She will most likely escalate the message to something much deeper than what it begins with. Let her be spontaneous and sincere with you. She has this all planned out with her friends prior.
-If and when she tells you she's in love with you. Realize that, this action is her way of trying to lock you down. She knows how much you mean to her and she feels very accomplished when she successfully tells you that.
-Don't take up all the space in conversation. Let her do most of the talking.
-Give it good time before you even start to consider exclusivity. I'd say 6 months is an absolute minimum. Take her on a week-long trip for example. It will show her worst sides.
-Don't tell her how your day was and what you are doing unless she asks. As with anything, people don't care.
-Share your successes subtly. Don't brag
-NEVER stop teasing her. The more she giggles with you, the more she associates freedom of expression with you.
-The goal is to make her feel like you check every box in her wishlist, through acting like you don't care about her shortcomings, while seeming like your standards are way above average
-Dress your age. Dress like you care about yourself.
-Don't act like a 15yo girl when she shit tests you
-If she challenges your ways, don't get dragged into it. Shrug it off, but don't just stand there quiet like she got to you
-DONT stop cold approaching women. It keeps you sharp between the ears and your libido awake. Reminding yourself of your own value is a sure confidence boost.
-Remember that everything that happens outside your frame is there for your amusement
-Your inner state defines your reality. Work on your inner state through mental and physical exercise
-If she tells you to hand her something, like a pair of socks or her phone or whatever. Don't just say "no". Give it to her, but "punish" her for commanding you, by slapping her ass and saying something teasy. Condition her to obey you, not command you. She doesn't want to command you and when she does, it is a subconscious effort to weaken your frame. React knowing this.
-If she's doing something that you don't like, don't overtly tell her every time. Make her figure it out, through your actions. She will hamster on it for hours and eventually text you.
-Use the power of the internet to make you her dopamine spike. Don't respond to texts instantly. Have her wait, especially when she sends emotional messages. Goal is to have her see a notification from you and get a small dopamine hit.
-When you talk about yourself, talk about your friends and the people in your life. Create an image in her head that you have high social value. Don't send her pictures of you having fun with your friends etc. she doesn't care.
-DO NOT take selfies with her, with the intent of posting them on social media. NO ONE CARES. Let her do that if she wants to show you off.
-Follow her actions on social media. If she is almost non-existent on IG after she started seeing you, it means she is more than fulfilled by what you have to give her. If she keeps posting pictures on IG, clear dopamine spike pictures, understand that you are not fulfilling her and that she might fuck the Chad.
-Never forget it is your turn
-When you are intimate. Take it slow. Feel her entire body up, move with purpose, take her. Tie her hands down and kiss her behind the ear. Kiss her belly. Kiss her butt. Spank it. Spend at least 10-20minutes teasing her before you get your dick wet.
-LEARN TO MAKE HER CUM. Do whatever is necessary. Tell her to show you, read up on things (sex god method, the domination principle).
-If you can make her cum, you own her. This doesn't mean you'll own her forever.