Notes

Am I Selfish?

Jack: well you are not that selfish but yeah you can be sometimes
especially when you get anxiety attacks
you are not selfish on purpose
but you usually think of your self much more than others

Ben: The thing is, you just think everybody hates and you presume that everybody does. You don't actually seem to care about other people such as me, but only yourself and how you are with that person. Not that person.

Craig: That wasnt the point in me asking. Was just curious since you clearly dont care about anything I say or do. Call it paranoid but when someone like you screws people over time and time again, you kinda lose trust.
If you care so much about people then why were you constant in making people feel like shit on the server? If I ever called you out on anything you did wrong you treated it like I was targeting you. For one you screwed my trust with you when I gave you more chances than anyone ever on the server just because of Dillon and you threw those away like it was nothing. You purposely broke multiple rules and kept getting in peoples personal life when they didnt want you to. It was in the server rules about getting peoples personal info against their consent was not allowed.


INFP Weakness: Take Things Personally – Mediators often take challenges and criticisms personally, rather than as inspiration to reassess their positions. Avoiding conflict as much as possible, Mediators will put a great deal of time and energy into trying to align their principles and the criticisms into a middle ground that satisfies everybody.
Too Altruistic – Mediators sometimes see themselves as selfish, but only because they want to give so much more than they are able to. This becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, as they try to push themselves to commit to a chosen cause or person, forgetting to take care of the needs of others in their lives, and especially themselves. (maybe false, may actually just be selfish)

May be extremely sensitive to any kind of criticism
May perceive criticism where none was intended
May have skewed or unrealistic ideas about reality
May be unable to acknowledge or hear anything that goes against their personal ideas and opinions
May blame their problems on other people, seeing themselves as victims who are treated unfairly
May have great anger, and show this anger with rash outpourings of bad temper
May be unaware of appropriate social behavior
May be oblivious to their personal appearance, or to appropriate dress
May come across as eccentric, or perhaps even generally strange to others, without being aware of it
May be unable to see or understand anyone else's point of view
May value their own opinions and feelings far above others
May be unaware of how their behavior affects others
May be oblivious to other people's need
May feel overwhelmed with tension and stress when someone expresses disagreement with the INFP, or disapproval of the INFP
May develop strong judgments that are difficult to unseed against people who they perceive have been oppressive or suppressive to them
Under great stress, may obsess about details that are unimportant to the big picture of things
Under stress, may obsessively brood over a problem repeatedly
May have unreasonable expectations of others
May have difficulty maintaining close relationships, due to unreasonable expectations